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Harry Truman and the Atomic bomb decision

In 1945 the US was at war with Japan and Germany at the same time. Harry Truman was Franklin D. Roosevelt’s vice president and when FDR died in April of 1945, Harry Truman became the President of the United States. In any normal time period, that alone for a vice President would be life altering. When you are at war on two separate fronts, the pressure is almost unimaginable.

The US had been developing the atomic bomb for some time and the first successful test was on July 16, 1945. Harry Truman (in office for three months) had the most difficult decision any president has ever had to make. Do we use it?

The US military had been fighting on two fronts for four years straight (after Pearl Harbor) and had already lost 400,000+ young men and women. The US had taken Midway and Iwo Jima, but Japan would not surrender because they still had two million soldiers on the mainland. Truman knew that to use a Normandy style attack on the mainland of Japan, the US would lose possibly 10’s of thousands of additional service men and service women.

People in the US were sick of war and death and Truman knew that the US had something no one else in the world had. It had the way to end the war. It took a decision no other president before or after has ever been faced with. Do we drop a bomb that will kill everything breathing for several miles surrounding the landing site?

Japan was rigid in their unwillingness to end the war and had already said they would fight to the death until every Japanese solder was dead.  They would not surrender even if it meant saving their own people.

Many historians look back and give their opinions about what a monster Truman was. What they don’t realize was that if the war continued, America could have lost another million service men and women and continued fighting Japan for another five years. The loss of life over those next five years would have changed the next three generation of America.

Truman made the decision to use the atomic bomb on Hiroshima hoping it would end the war. The following are the facts and the results for those that find fault with the decision Truman made.

A Boeing B-29 Superfortress took off the morning of August 6th and dropped the “Little Boy” atomic bomb on Hiroshima Japan and it killed 140,000 people and eviscerated an entire city and region. Japan still wouldn’t surrender. Three days later another B-29 Superfortress dropped the “Fat Man” atomic bomb on Nagasaki. The Imperial Japanese Army surrendered five days later, and the world took a needed deep breath. The truth is that the decision to use the bombs saved countless hundreds of thousands of American AND Japanese lives. It saved those lives because it ended the war.

So, when you hear pundits spout off about Truman and the use of overwhelming force to end the war, remember there is a strong probability that you would not be here today if Truman had not made that decision. Why? because very likely your fathers or grandfathers might have died if the war had lasted another five years. The decision Truman made stopped the war in eight days and saved countless lives. KT

What do you do when your plans fall apart?

At the start of 2020, most everyone had wishes, hopes, dreams, objectives and goals for how they wanted 2020 to go. Over the past five months, most of those plans have changed.

Do you roll up in a ball and just wait for 2021? No, you don’t. You still get up each morning and wash your face and keep on keeping on. You work at it and then you work at it some more and you will eventually get through it. These past five months have been devastating to many industries, jobs, families, lives, health and livelihood, but sitting down and crying about isn’t going to change anything.

A smart person once said, it is amazing how much better you get at something the more you practice at it. Well, today and for the past five months I feel like I have been just practicing (ha) but with practice and consistency comes great reward and great satisfaction.

In life you can’t be rigid in your thinking and your planning. Take any family vacation you have ever been on and you know that whatever the plan may have been at the beginning, there were always changes that needed to be adopted. It is that way in life also. If you have an exact plan and then get upset when things don’t go accordingly, you are just going to end up frustrated. You can’t control what you can’t control but you can control how you respond to it.

There are some people if their plan is disrupted, they lack the ability to recalculate and respond to the change. They just give up. Don’t be one of these people. I love the military special forces units like the Rangers, Green Berets, Navy Seals, Marine RECON units. If you study these units, you will find that they have THE plan and then they have all kinds of contingency plans if events change. Very rarely do you see them at a loss of what to do. No, they don’t wring their hands and worry. They just move to their back up plans.

That is what I am saying today. Just because the plan you had earlier in the year has changed, be thankful that you are alive and well and able to keep learning and moving forward. Stay flexible in your thinking and able to respond positively to change. KT

Doing what is right

There are somethings in life you just need to say no to.

I sell hotels and over the years, I have had buyers and sellers offer me everything from money under the table to free cars if I would help them get a deal. I am proud to say that I have not only never taken the bait, but that I have never even been tempted to.

Even in my darkest financial (restaurants back in the 90’s) time, I never even considered it. Doing these type things cost you your credibility, your opportunity and in some situations, your freedom. There is a person that I knew well years ago who chose to take side deals, kick backs and money under the table. Today that same person is serving a prison sentence and has lost everything he had and once believed in.

Why am I telling you this? I was on a call today with some investors that offered me this exact thing. I shut it down so quick they couldn’t believe a broker didn’t want to earn some extra money. Ha. Here is the thing. In life, whatever you compromise to keep, you always seem to lose. I believe that once you step over certain lines you never really get it back. When I retire, which is probably sooner than later, I want to know that I did it right and that I did it honestly.

There are certain things in your life that you just must do before you can truly enjoy the rest of your life. I believe knowing in your heart that you were honest, is one of those things. Oh, sure there are some scoundrels that never get caught and live to an old age but the real question no one will ever know is, did they really have peace and joy.

My friend and mentor Harmon Born passed away a couple of weeks ago and he always told me that the key to restful sleep, peace and joy is to do what is right even if no one is watching. I think those are pretty good words to life by. KT

Saying goodbye

We said goodbye today to my mentor. His name was Harmon Born. He was 93 years old and his funeral was earlier today. For decades, Harmon owned and operated the highest volume Ford automobile dealership in the US. He was also a dear friend to me and my family.

Additionally, he owned a Lincoln/ Mercury dealership and I remember 30 years ago asking him why he drove a Ford instead of a Lincoln. He told me that “he just never felt comfortable in a 25-thousand-dollar automobile.” Of course, 30 years ago you could buy a new Lincoln for 25 thousand dollars.

Several quotes and statements he told me (some serious, some funny) that have always stayed with me. The following are only a few:

If you ever need a heart transplant, try to get the one from your banker because it has hardly been used

I want to live to be 100 years old because hardly anyone dies over a 100

If something needs doing, don’t look around to see if someone else will do it. Step up

Don’t ever forget that God gave you everything you have

Listen twice as much as you talk

Always stay humble and you will enjoy God’s favor

Never get too big for your pants or think of yourself as special and deserving

Always do what is right,  try your best and love other people

In the old church we attended for many years, as with many churches, they would have donations drives for this or that. Some churches would name pews after people who gave money. I remember Harmon said one day, “never put someone’s name on a pew or a plaque for giving one time. If there is any recognition, it should go to the weekly giver who gives consistently.”

He was simply the finest man I have ever known and has been my personal example since I left home halfway through my senior year of high school. He took a 17-year-old kid who was on his own and taught him about life. The bible speaks about running the race completely and standing through the test of time. Harmon ran the good race all the way to the day he was called home. He never wavered in his belief of God and living life in the right way. All the way to the end. KT

Less Fortunate

This morning I was heading into work all jacked up on what is going on in the hotel economy and the civil unrest America seems to be experiencing now. I was thinking about all the hotels that will be owned by lenders over the next few months and what this economic market cycle will look by the end of 2020.

On the way to work, I looked over to my right and saw a person, let’s just say, less fortunate than me. It immediately humbled me and made me ashamed for being worked up over issues relative to work and the economy. My first thoughts were, I am ok, my family is ok, and the rest really doesn’t matter.

Sometimes it is the simplest realities that impact our lives the most and how we feel. Appreciation and thankfulness are very powerful antidotes to anxiety and worry. If you haven’t tried this lately, just write down the top three biggest blessings in your life and it is my guess, none of the three things will involve money.

Happy July Wednesday. KT