All posts by Keith Thompson

Remembering 911

16 years ago, when 911 happened, I was driving to our office in the Buckhead area of Atlanta. That morning had been like most mornings, where our girls left for school, I got some coffee and settled into the one hour drive to the office. At the time, I was part of a small brokerage company with two very close friends called ThompsonCalhounFair. When I say small, I mean small as in the three of us plus one.

I remember parking in the garage and strolling as usual to the building and up the elevators to our little 1,000 sq. ft. office. I walked in and Mark was sitting in Al’s office and they looked like they had just lost their best friend. Mark ask “have you heard?” I said “heard what?” and he said “it’s bad, really bad.” I said “what are you talking about, I didn’t have the radio on coming to work” and he and Al proceeded to tell me about first airplane that hit the first tower and how the news media think it was a terrorist attack. Well, that got my attention.

We went across the street to the Marriott Courtyard where they had a TV so we could see what was going on. About 20 min into us watching the news, the cameras focused live on a second plane that was flying near the Trade Center and then we, along with most of America watched as it flew into the second Trade Center building. No one said anything because we all knew what it meant. We watched live coverage of people jumping from the tower which was 110 stories tall and my stomach was tied in knots. I don’t remember how much longer, but it wasn’t long, maybe 20-25min and we watched as the first tower collapsed to the ground and people were running for their life. Then a few min latter we watched as the second tower collapsed and I knew our world, as we knew it had just changed.

Not knowing the extent of the terrorist attack and where else it may happen, I jumped in my Chevy Tahoe fully prepared to hit four-wheel drive and basically do whatever it would take for me to get to my family. I made it my girls schools that were still operating and checked them out and made sure Elaine was home. Once I had my family together we watched the as the security of America and the world changed that day.

There are moments you can remember in exact detail about where you were and what you were doing. That was one of those moments for me and I will never forget it. On this day, September the 11th, 2017 the 16th anniversary of 911, let’s remember what America means and what it stands for and the good about who we are. Let not a very few small-minded journalists who write editorials for news outlets lead you to believe that America has lost its way. It hasn’t and we haven’t. We simply live in the best country on the face of the globe. KT

Direction versus intention

The other day I heard a pastor speak on this topic and it rang true for me, so I wanted to give my take on the subject.

Direction versus intention is an often a misunderstood idea. Just because you say “I wanted to,” “I intended to,” I meant to,” go one direction in your life doesn’t really mean that much. It is really about the actual direction you are going. It’s like if you are in Atlanta and you want to go to Florida but your car is pointed north, it really doesn’t matter what you intended to do, rather it only matters the actual direction you are heading. Make sense?

I am a hotel broker and we sell hotels. Over the years, I have given a speech to other brokers more times than I can count. It is the same exact philosophy as the Florida example. It goes like this. Pick your financial objective for the year, divide the income by the average income per sale. Divide that by the number of deals you must have on the market and then divide that by the number of pitches you must make and you will know the number of annual calls you need to make in order to earn what you set out to earn. Then lastly, divide that annual number by 52 weeks and you have then solved the way to hit your financial objective. When you do this, you know the number of calls you need to make today. When you don’t make the calls today and tomorrow, you in effect are announcing now that you really didn’t intend to make your annual goal. You don’t have to wait six months. If you are honest with yourself, you know today what your true intentions were.

The point you ask? In sales, you can have all the intentions and desires you want, but if you are unwilling to make the calls today and tomorrow (point your car toward Florida) you will not meet your desired destination. I cannot tell you how many times I have brokers in my office in September unsure why they don’t have more on the books. When I review with them what they did earlier in the year, it becomes clear that they and they alone decided earlier in the year to be right where they are.

So, with all this explanation ask yourself, what is my true intentions for my family, finances, education, work, health and general life? Then listen not to what you SAY you want, rather look at the actual direction you are heading. KT

Them, without me

Them, without me

Have you ever had a thought cross your mind for the first time and you think, where did that come from? Well, that happened to me the other day. It is a little morbid but as I thought it through, I realized that at some point in most everyone’s life, they have this same thought and concern so I decided to address it in this blog.

The thought that crossed my mind was, if I should pass away early from this life, is my family ready? Have I prepared for this possibility? Have I told them what they need to know from their husband, dad and father in-law. Have I set a good example for them to follow? Are financial matters in order? Have I taught them how to live right and honest and straightforward? Have I lead them to the Lord? Have I poured into their lives what a proper dad and husband should have done?  In short, will my wife, my daughters, my son in-laws and grand babies be ok if I am not here?

How is that for a wake-up thought? Ha

So, that day I started doing a mental checklist on the questions above. While there could be improvement in the status in each area, I felt comfort knowing that I have poured enough into my wife, daughters, son in-laws and grand babies that they could go on without me. They are incredibly strong, intelligent, resilient and beautiful and they will handle life in the greatest manner.

As you read this blog ask yourself, is my family ready? Have I done what I am supposed to do to get them prepared? The good news is, if you are reading this, it means you are still with us and there is still time to get the “them” in our lives ready. KT

Comments

We live in a world where we have begun to care too much about what other people think. With social media, there are people that take pictures of their dinner and post it on-line and open themselves up for other people to comment and or approve of what they eat. Between Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Google + etc. it is like we need the approval or at least the acknowledgement from other people on what we are doing.

Then there are the people (family and friends) we know that feel the absolute need to tell you what they think about what you are doing. Sometimes you listen to them and sometimes you don’t but the times when they clearly are melding in your personal business, you just pat them on arm and tell them how much you appreciate their opinion and then walk away and forget everything they just said. Ha. It is funny how some people want to tell everyone else how to run their life when the person doing the talking can’t run their own life.

This may be old school but I believe the only comment you need to care about is what God thinks. If we are honest with ourselves, we know before we do something whether God will be pleased or not. There is very little gray area in doing what is right.

Here is a perfect example of a hotel comment on trip advisor I heard last week from a friend. One guest writes “I hated this hotel because there were kids everywhere at the pool and all they served for food was macaroni & cheese and hotdogs. Stay away from this hotel.” The next guest writes “we have four kids and loved the hotel because the pool was kid friendly and they served macaroni & cheese and hotdogs. I would recommend this hotel to anyone.”

See what I mean? It’s all about the perspective.

We would do well to keep what we do in life away from social media and the inevitable comments that we ask for. The comment you receive is largely centered around how that person’s life is going and how their day has gone. The comment you really need to be aware of and listen to is what God thinks. KT

Missing life

Have you ever met someone that seems to have it all and still cannot find happiness and joy in their life? I am talking about a person who is gainfully employed or owns their own business, has a great spouse, beautiful children, beautiful home, influence, beautiful lifestyle, living in health and people that look up to them and they simply cannot find joy in their life.

They are so caught in striving to live that they forget to live. I call it missing life

I am writing this blog post because there are three people on my heart today that fit this description. They should be fully engaged in life yet are seemingly bound by invisible arms that want to hold them down and steal from them the joy that is rightfully theirs.

I am a simple guy, but for me, I believe joy is choice, not a result of circumstance. We have this gentleman at our church who is about the same age as I am, and he is bound to a wheelchair. He is one of the greeters at the front doors, and I am humbled every time I shake his hand because somehow in his situation, he has found a way to be happy and full of joy. He is truly inspiring.

In the past four weeks, I know of several people that either lost their life or had it change instantly because of some event, news or accident that was out of their control. So, as I think about this subject, I think about what it would be like to be at the point of stepping into eternity and knowing in your heart that you are leaving this life with the music still in you.

If you are reading this blog post, make the decision to find joy, contentment, fulfillment and happiness in where you are today. If you cannot find it where you currently are, you will not find it where you think you are going. There is a common phrase that describes this, “wherever I go, there I am.” Decide to change the “am” part of that phase so that you can be like the apostle Paul when he said in Philippians 4:11 “for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.” KT