All posts by Keith Thompson

Learning about life

Charlie Jones tells this story of his son coming home and telling his dad he wanted to start selling greeting cards, door to door in their neighborhood. His son asked him if he would teach him how to sell.

Sure enough, Charlie sits him down and began to teach him what to say and how to respond to the customer’s questions etc. He tells his son to go outside and come up and knock on the door and do a practice run with his dad. The little boy gets his sales materials together and goes outside ready to do the practice pitch in front of his dad. He was so innocent and sweet as he walked to the front door expecting his dad to kneel and be so supportive while he fumbles through the pitch.

He knocked on the front door and his dad opens it and looks down at his son and says, “what do YOU want?” The little boy is shocked by the abrupt voice of his dad and tries to answer. His dad just slams the door in in his face. Of course, the little boy starts bawling. The dad’s wife comes running to in the room and starts asking him why he was being so mean to their son.

The dad replies “I am just getting him ready for a little living. He needs to know that everyone will not be gentle, accepting and kind. He needs to understand how to handle discouragement and adversity and keep on going”

The little boy stopped crying and knocked on the door again and the dad explained what he trying to teach him. That afternoon the little boy went out and sold five orders of greeting cards and did not get discouraged when some people were rude and said no.

That story tells a lot about real life. Many people get discouraged quickly and quit. History is full of people that if they had quit, they never would have invented some of the greatest inventions of all time. Tenacity is often overlooked as one of the most important attributes of life. You show me a person who doesn’t quit easy and I will show you a person accomplishing things in their life. KT

Extra helpings of life

Life changes people and experiences change people. None of us are who we were years ago. Many times, the shy one is now the outgoing one. The insensitive one is now the hypersensitive one. The timid one is now the bold one. The uncaring one is now the one who cares most. The least likely to success is the one who succeeded the most and the showboat whose daddy always bought them the hottest cars, is no longer driving the hottest cars. The carefree one is now the careful one. The computer nerd is now the CEO of a tech startup. These examples could go on for pages, but you get the point.

The most perfect and comical example of this is high school class reunions. I want to be gentle when I say this, but the most beautiful and popular girls in school, well, let’s just say they no longer hold that title at the class reunions. I saw the head cheerleader of our high school a few years back and she said hello to me.  God as my witness, I didn’t even know who she was until she started talking. Ha

The point is we never remain the same person as we once were. We all evolve and grow into being who we choose to be. Not where we were heading, rather where we chose to head. See, life is about decisions and as Andy Stanley once said, we never really know what hangs in the balance of each decision. Meaning, how that decision we make will impact the ones we love most.

Therefore, we need to choose well and redeem the time we have and do the most with the opportunities we encounter today. We just never know where the simplest opportunity will lead us and the person, we will become because of it. KT

Getting the files in order

Several weeks ago, I completed something I have needed to do for years. I have many files in my home office regarding financial accounts, insurance policies, estate, wills, personal information etc. I personally know where everything is at and how to find it, but should something happen to me, it would be very complicated for my family to understand and access everything.

Years ago, I planned to put together one file with all the overviews, details and contact information so should the lord call me home, Elaine can pull that one file and know everything she would need and have access to.

Since I have had more time on my hands lately (ha,) I decided to tackle this objective. It took me several days to get everything down into one document that is easy to understand and tells where everything is at.

This is estate planning as its finest. The last thing I want my family to struggle with should something happen to me is where everything is at and how to find it. Regardless of the size of your estate or the simplicity or complexity, it makes sense to get all your affairs in order. It helps you feel more in control and will help you rest easier. KT

From Density to Distancing

Ten short weeks ago, business was about packing in as much density with as many people as possible. From hotels, conventions, sports venues, air travel, resorts, retail, and office buildings – down to going to a Costco.

Now, ten weeks later, it is all about staying separate and distancing yourself from other people. How can this be possible? Because COVID-19 (‘CV”) has caused a shift in the paradigm of personal life and commercial life that no one saw coming. Ten weeks in, we now judge every face to face interaction differently than we used to.

Behind closed doors, almost every company is fearfully asking themselves, “will life as we knew it ever go back to the way it was?” The scary answer is maybe not. The most advantageous answer is it will come back but not at the same levels as pre-CV. Every company from a sandwich shop, hotels to sports venues, and entertainment are projecting different economic modeling because of the long-term effects on their industry. I was on a conference call recently discussing the various aspects of reopening the office workplace on June 1. Everything was discussed from ingress-egress, ice machine, copier to directional walking patterns in the office. The mandates and guidelines will change how people feel about in-office work, and that will be reflected in dining, travel, hotels, retail, entertainment, conferences, and so forth.

Working remotely has, for several years, been a discussion topic for many companies, but was mostly regulated to the back burner regarding its immediate need. As of 10 weeks ago, the need to implement and fully understand how to work remotely became the only focus. The results are enough to shake any industry and any company because the world was forced to learn how to make it work, and they did. Now companies are looking at everything from travel, office space, client engagement to liability insurance for potential changes in their financial modeling, possibly long term.

The actual result of the past ten weeks of CV will not become fully known until later this summer and fall. The potential changes to how businesses operate and the effects on the idea of dense groups of people in the same place will likely affect almost every commercial real estate segment going forward. For those segments where density was the objective 10 weeks ago, there may have been a longer-term shift in the way people think about it and how it affects personal movement. This shift could have lasting effects on almost all commercial real estate segments. KT

30 years

Last week was my 30th year anniversary of selling hotels. It is hard to believe because I feel like I should only be 40 years old but when I look in the mirror, there is some old guy looking back at me.

In 1990 I was in the restaurant business and failing miserably. I was working a hundred hours a week and still couldn’t make the business work. I remember like it was yesterday, one day I was driving back home from Columbus Georgia where the restaurants were, and I passed by a real estate school with a sign that said the next class was starting soon. In my mind, I thought, well maybe I can sell a few restaurants to help make the ends meet. So, I parked and went inside and signed up for the class.

I graduated the class and passed the state exam in May 1990, but in order to use your real estate license you must be assigned to a firm in good standing. I had bought the restaurants from a friend of mine who also sold hotels and thought I would get him to add my license to his company and start selling restaurants. I show up the next day at his office and tell him I want to learn how to sell restaurants and he says to me, “I don’t know how to sell restaurants, but I can teach you how to sell hotels.” I thought, well, how hard can it be. Ha

That was the start of the greatest opportunity God could have given me. I was broke and knew nothing about hotels but only that I needed to make something happen financially for my family. That first week I would drive early in the morning to Columbus to check on the stores and then get to the hotel brokerage office by early afternoon. I did that for the first week or so and had no leads, no phone calls and really didn’t know what I was doing. The next week I decided that if I was ever going to learn the business, I had to get out and go see some hotel owners. I got in my Chevrolet Caprice and went down I-75 until I had stopped at 132 hotels. I found the owners in probably half of them and by the time I got back to the office I had some people I could talk to.

I started in May of that year and by the end of 1990, I had closed seven hotel transactions and won the rookie of the year award for the US. After that I never looked back. I made God a promise in May of 1990 and even now when I think about it, it still makes me choke up even today. I promised him that if he would help me succeed, I would always give him the praise for it. I always have, See, I have no formal education and I stutter when I talk so I knew it would take the hand of God for me to make it.

30 years later I sit writing this blog and I can tell you unequivocally that it has been the hand of God on me that allowed my family to get out of the restaurant business and into the hotel brokerage business. I don’t know how many years I have left in the business, but it is as fresh every day as it was all those years ago and I am still amazed that God allowed me to do this as a career. KT