All posts by Keith Thompson

37th Anniversary

Today is mine and Elaine’s 37th anniversary. I should only be 37 years old, yet we all know that isn’t true. When we got married I was 20 years old and Elaine was 19. I have often said that the greatest sales pitch I ever made was the one where I talked her father into letting me marry his 19 year old daughter. Ha.

Elaine and I met in high school during the fall of our junior year in Mrs. Underwood’s science class. I played football and Elaine was on the drill team. We were both just kids and we started talking and joking with each other all while listening to Mrs. Underwood dribble on something I didn’t understand.

Later that fall after we met, I just decided one Sunday evening after church to go over to her house. She didn’t know I was coming over. I knocked on the door and met her father Max Phillips and the impression I instantly got was, don’t step out of line with my daughter! Anyway, I was in the kitchen and Max called Elaine’s grandmother’s house which was next door to tell Elaine she had a visitor. Well here I was in the kitchen wondering why I was in the kitchen of a girl that hadn’t invited when in through the door Elaine walks in with her brother Wayne. I didn’t know Wayne was her brother and didn’t know he was just 13 months younger than Elaine. To me, he looked like her boyfriend and again, I wondered just exactly what I had gotten myself into.

Later that evening when I was leaving we were standing beside my red Corvair and we kissed for the first time. I won’t say that I knew that night she was going to be my wife, but I will tell that I knew that night I wanted a wife and life companion like her.

We married today, 37 years ago and we have a great life together. We have two married daughters and two granddaughters and two great son in-laws and God has had his hand on us from that first night at her house. We have been through many things together including almost a 10 year period where we were broke and working to get of debt and to have enough money at the end of the month.

The bible speaks of having a virtuous wife and the value of an honest wife. I can tell you that the bible is absolutely true in every aspect but especially true about this. Elaine is that Virtuous woman. She is kind, beautiful, loving, principled, attentive and incredible insightful and intelligent.

I could write 10 pages on what our life together has been like but Elaine is the bride of youth and today we celebrate 37 years of marriage. KT

Hear me when I call, catch me when I fall

There is a country western song with this title that sounds good and feels good but it is not based on how actual life works. The first half of the title is true but the second half is not a given.

For God, It doesn’t matter how long it has been since you talked to him, he hears you when you pray. It doesn’t matter what you have done, where you have been and where you are now. It only matters that you call on him.

The gospel isn’t magic and you cannot snap your fingers and have all your problems go instantly away. There are certain sins that effect your heart and soul and there are sins that affect our external lives. Like for instant if you left the buggy in the parking lot at the grocery store instead of returning it to the corral or driving 56 miles per hour in a 55 miles per hour zone. These things can be forgiven and covered without usually having any repercussions. Now, if you go on social media and tell a blasphemous lie about someone else, this can take on a life of its own. Or, if you rob a bank at gun point, these missteps will take longer and will be much more expensive to repair.

There is a misconception that God will always catch you when you fall. Like the title of this blog, he hears you whenever and wherever you call but there is no promise he will catch you every time you fall. He says he will be with you but he doesn’t tell us he will catch us. Going back to the bank robbing example, you can call on him after you get caught and he will hear you and forgive you but you are still going to jail. I know that robbing a bank is a silly example but I use that silly example because talking about adultery, steeling, cheating, fornication, gluttony, lying, gossiping, tearing down another person, unforgiveness, greed etc. are all too deep to get into in a few paragraphs.

The point is, there is no where you can go in life or nothing you can ever do where he doesn’t hear you. You are his child and he loves you unconditionally. There are however things and situations we get ourselves into that is not a quick fix and can’t be repaired with a simple “please forgive me.”

Take my restaurant investments back in the late 80’s for example. Was investing in restaurants a sin? No. Was it a mistake? Yes. That mistake took me eight years and immeasurable financial heartache to get past. Was he with me while during the eight years? Absolutely, but he didn’t catch me and work some gospel magic that would wipe away the bad discussion. He did however give me his wisdom and patience and his blessing during the rough financial period.

So the song title should be, “hear me when I call” or “as often as I call he hears me.” KT

Messenger boy

The tongue is the messenger boy for the heart. If you have never read a word I have said before, please read this one. It could change your life.

If you have ever wondered what is in your heart in abundance, think about what came out of your mouth over the past two weeks and you will probably be close. The bible says that whatever is in your heart in abundance will come out of your mouth. It didn’t say it might, it said it will.

Have you recently been angry, jealous or in strife against someone else. Did you say something you wish you hadn’t said? Did you talk about someone recently behind there back? Did you verbally put someone down recently? Are they all against you? Did someone slight you recently? Where you involved in gossip?

Do you have conversations with yourself about what you wished you had said or what you are going to say the next time? See, these are all coming from the heart. The heart is the real you and it will eventually be spoken out of your mouth. You may be able to control it for a while but if you let your heart dwell on strife, anger and jealousy, you will one day say something that you can’t take back. Once it is said out loud, it can never be taken back as though it had never happened. We all know that this is true. Once you ring certain bells, you can never un-ring them.

The place to fix this is in your heart. The way to fix your heart is to have a real honest conversation with God about where you are going. God will not be surprised by what you tell him because he already knows it all. He is just waiting for you to speak it out loud.

In a blog post, you have about 4 paragraphs to get a point across and this point needs 20 pages. We don’t have 20 pages so please acknowledge that your heart is where you make change if you want to change your life. The change can be as simple as talking to God in a full on honest way and beginning the process of changing your heart.

Your tongue is the messenger boy for your heart and if you don’t want to be embarrassed one day by what the boy says, you need to start working on your heart. KT

Are you satisfied?

I was out walking my dog the other evening and he was so playful and wanted to run and be petted so we just had us a little time together. When he right up against me and craving for attention I wondered to myself, is his life good and enjoyable and satisfying? We crate train him during the day and then he gets out in the mornings and evenings. It sounds crazy I know, but I just wondered what it would be like to wait on your owner for 8 hours until they get home. So is he satisfied with his life? I think in the dog world, he is. I personally believe (this is completely unfounded) that the good Lord created all the other animals first and then for the last animal he created one that would need and love the companionship of humans. He created a dog. They are the only animal that needs the love of a human. To a cat, you are simply an inconvenience that they have to put up with to get food. Ha. Not so with a dog. A dog wants and needs you and his life is simply satisfying if he has you.

So enough about dogs. Are you satisfied with your life? Are there fears in your life that only you know about that is holding you back? Is there a history in your life that you just can’t get past. Do you look at your life and wish you could change it? Is there a fear or anxiety that keeps coming up in different areas of your life?

My wife loves to watch the show “Dancing with the Stars”. Because I love my wife, I watch it with her. Well, a new season started last night that will probably be on for two nights a week for the next five years. Ha, but last night there was this one contestant, a young father of three named Noah Galloway that has lost an arm and half of a leg in Iraq and yet is competing in dancing with the Stars. He said “it’s not about what we can’t do, but more about what we can.” What a statement.

What is holding you back? Embarrassment, fear, anxiety, anger, awkwardness, inferiority, health, handicap? What is it? I believe the very first step in getting past a fear is it to identify it and call it by name. Once it is named and recognized, you can began the process of dealing with it out loud and out smarting it. Fear is Satan’s greatest weapon he uses to control us. If he can get you to be afraid, he has won that area of your life. My belief if that if you allow one fear to exist in your life you will not struggle with the second or third fear. Before you know it, you have several fears holding you back.

Fighting fear is not easy in any regard but if you want to teach your children how to combat their fears, you need to first fight and overcome yours. KT

My office at home

My favorite room in our home is my office. When we built the house I designed it just the way I wanted it with built in book shelves, three side by side windows and it is painted hunter green with green berber carpet. In case you didn’t pick up on this, my favorite color is green.

The shelves are covered with things and items that mean something to me and things which have had an impact on my life. There are reminders of the time when we were broke that I keep very close to me so that I will always be reminded of the grace of God that brought us through that period. There are items from my childhood, watches that have belonged to parents and grandparents and a gold pocket railroad watch that that belonged to my dad’s family. There are books, mementoes from various periods in my life as well as items that are more current. I have many books on life leadership from Abraham Lincoln to Sam Walton and many books on muscle cars and automobile history.

I have pictures of my daughters through the years and notes that they written to me as well as I have the high school picture of my wife, who I met in high school. There are also many many diacast model cars and trucks from muscle cars to vintage trucks. In case I didn’t tell you, I love cars and trucks. Ha

Along one wall is a framed announcement of the first 56 hotels I sold. When I look at that wall I can remember every one of them and who the client was. That wall represents the start of what has become my career. I am also very aware that one day the sales will end and all I will have is the memories of the career. I am thankful to God for leading me into the line of work I have been blessed to be in.

This room carries many great moments and memories for me. When I walk in, it is almost like my life is on the walls and the shelves. They speak to me about God’s grace and God’s timing.

What I like most about the room is that it represents where I have come from but it also represents where I am going. I hope and trust there will be many more items added to the shelves and pictures added to the walls of future memories that will be made. When I pass away, I know most of these things and items will be boxed up done away with because they have meaning only for me. Many of these items will not mean much to my children because with each item, I carry the memory of what they mean. I want my children and grandchildren to have their own walls and shelves of things that mean something to them that represents their life.

Everyone should have a place where they keep the memories and mementoes of their life. I guess you could call my office the green room but I call it my place and my spot. KT