Category Archives: Life

D-Day, Omaha Beach, Normandy France

Our European forces landed on Omaha beach in the northern region of France on June 6, 1944 at a time when the outcome of WWII was still in question. The battle for Normandy France lasted 26 days. Many people gloss over what happened in Europe during the second world war but to state it simply, if we had lost the war in Europe, we would have lost America. The liberties and freedom you have today is because thousands of our service members from another generation died saving the America dream.

When you hear politicians, pundits and intellectual neophytes talk about impeachment, collusion, interference, congressional hearings, twitter and Facebook accounts and who is wearing what gown to the Hollywood awards ceremony, just remember that thousands of our soldiers never got the chance to live a full life because they were fighting so we could have one.

When the US Forces landed on Omaha beach that day, there were 12,020 German troops from the 352nd division, many in concrete bunkers, killing as many of our men as possible. To get from the ships to the beach they used Landing Craft Assault (LCA’s) vehicles that were basically flat bottom steel boats with high sides and a drop-down gate in the front. For many of the men, the only thing they could see was the soldiers with them in the boat. They were standing shoulder to shoulder in the LCA’s waiting for it to get to the shore and the gate to drop down. The Germans would wait until the gate dropped and start firing machine guns into the group of soldiers trying to get to shore. Many of our young men died before they even got out of the boats. One boat in particular had 31 men aboard and only seven men made it out of the boat alive.

At the end of that battle, there were 93,000 dead or wounded (American, allied troops, German, French civilians) evacuated. Within a few days, America had taken the beach and within 26 days, they were operational with 11,000 troops, 2,000 vehicles, 9,000 tons of equipment. 100 days later we had 1,000,000 tons of supplies, 100,000 vehicles and 600,000 men in the northern region of France. The battle at Omaha beach turned the tide of the war in Europe. If America and its allied countries had not won that day, we could have potentially lost the free world we know today.

This Thanksgiving as you have dinner with your family and sit around the fireplace, remember to give thanks to all those families that lost their loved ones fighting for us. KT

A Shepherd’s Rod and Staff

In the 23rd Psalm, part of the passage says, “for thou art with me, thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me.” This is often overlooked, and I have never heard a pastor speak about it. The 23rd Psalm is so rich in content, but this little sentence doesn’t get much attention.

Visualize this image. A Shepherd walking in front of his sheep holding his rod and staff in his hand.

Definition; the only way his rod and staff give you comfort is if you can see it. The only way you can see it is if he is in front, leading the way. If you want to be in front, out ahead of Jesus leading your own way, you can’t see the rod and the staff and therefore they will not comfort you.

Give this some thought. KT

Coming in second, third or twelfth place

It is ok to not be first. In life there is a danger when anything or anyone consumes us and becomes an obsession that controls us. Examples range from exercise to gardening and everything in between. With all things there is a normal level of interest and attention and then there is the obsession level. When the thing you do starts to control you, there should be a warning bell that goes off in your heart telling you to be careful.

Take sports for example. It is one thing to have a child in sports once or twice a week but when that simple enjoyment becomes every day, ever morning and every evening, this is when you need to be careful. I know this man who is consumed and obsessed with exercise and it literally controls his life. He cannot function without it and finds no joy in his life where exercise does not exist.

Also, years ago when I started selling hotels, I became friends with this broker from Florida, and we sold a hotel together in late 1990. His obsession was washing his car. He never took airline flights. He always had to drive. I bet his wife was a saint. Ha. I remember him telling how he had to wash and detail his car every morning before he could start his day. I know to us this sounds ridiculous, but to him, it controlled his life. He literally had a detail kit and water in his trunk and would clean his car in the hotel parking lot before he could function that day.

In everything there are normal levels and dangerous levels. It is incumbent upon us be aware when things or people began to control us. It is ok to not be in first place if being in first place means you give up control. I would rather be happy and restful in second, third or twelfth place than I would be unhappy and in first place. KT

You are either improving or getting worse

There was an NFL head coach that used to tell his players that every day, they were either improving or getting worse. The more I think about this, the more I believe it is true. Harmon Born used to say that the only way you can coast, is downhill.

Whether you are talking about relationships, marriage, finances, health, children or jobs, every day you are either adding building blocks or you are taking them away. Unfortunately, life doesn’t let us just remain in neutral. As the NFL coach said, you are either improving or getting worse.

Each day is made up of ‘touches’ where we interact with people we meet, books we read, things we say and thoughts we allow. All these things are the daily building blocks of our life and they are either helping us improve or allowing us to decline. If you really want to test this theory, ask yourself if you are better in any way or worse in any way than you were last week. Have you learned anything in the past week that you didn’t know before? The mind and the will of a person is very powerful and so much about life is believing you can improve coupled with the hope for a better future.

I think this means to just try a little harder this week than you did last week. Give just a little more of yourself to whatever it is you do. Life is not played on a field with an end zone, rather it is played over a lifetime of days and moments that hopefully see us better tomorrow than we were yesterday. KT

How to train a dog

Even though the title of this blog is how to train a dog, I have no idea how. I have a little fat dog (Sheltie) that I love more than I have ever loved an animal, but I can’t train him to do anything. I have watched videos about how to train a dog to fetch, heel, shake hands etc. and he just looks at me like I don’t know what I am talking about. He is with me all the time at home and sits beside my chair at night always waiting for some attention or a scrap of food.

When he was a puppy, he was wild. Because we live in a neighborhood, I couldn’t let him out in the yard without supervision. I didn’t love the idea of putting on clothes, shoes and a coat to walk him every morning so I hammered a steel stake near the front door so when he was little I would just loop his leash on that stake so he could do his business each morning and evening and I wouldn’t have to stay out with him when it was cold. By doing that, he learned to stay close to the house so now he just goes out by himself and stays close to the front of the house and sits on the porch until I come and get him.

One thing he does that tickles me is in the morning when I let him out, he will look back to see if I am watching. If he knows I am not watching, he will pee right in front of the door but if he looks back and sees me watching he will go to the flower bed or the grass. This morning we played this watching game and I decided I might buy one of those training collars that give him a little shock. I thought instead of putting the collar around his neck I might just attached it his little private part. Ha. I bet that would take care of the problem.

So, my dog has a vocabulary of about eight words like eat, bed, sit, stay etc. and he doesn’t do any other tricks like fancy dogs, but I love the little fellow. KT