Category Archives: Family

Your imagination

This is important. Our imagination is an incredible and extremely powerful tool and it can be used to lift you up or to tear you down. There have been many many books written on the subject but every one of those ideas were birthed in the book of proverbs in the bible. Without writing 40 pages on this subject, the short explanation is that you are and you will become the image you see of yourself. If you see yourself failing, you most likely will fail. Your self-image could be the most powerful weapon outside of prayer, you have that determines your future. Create some positive imagines of yourself and reflect on them every day. We all struggle with the failure images in various areas of our life so why not create some positive ones that you can think about also.

This is not some hocus pocus TV evangelistic magic. This is why God gave you a mind, heart and soul that is more powerful than anything man will ever invent. In the King James Version of the bible, 1 Timothy 4:15 says “meditate upon these things (means uplifting things), give yourself wholly to them that thy profiting may appear (be shown) to all.” Your imagination and your thoughts are powerful and ask God to help you find some good images that lift up your spirit.

I can’t say I do this every time because I don’t but I have had times when my mind is idling and an image of something bad happening just pops up. In those moments I try to imagine something great and uplifting to counter act the earlier image. I go to sleep every night thinking about the White Christmas Movie because it is happy, clean, peaceful and joyful. If I don’t think about that movie, my minds starts on all the things I need to do the next day and who said what and who did what and yada yada yada. Therefore I force myself to concentrate on that old movie because it helps me shut down worrisome thoughts. As you know I sell hotels, and the funny thing is when I think about that movie, I imagine that I have just bought the “Columbia Inn” in Pine Tree VT and as I am walking through the hotel I see that all the cloths, furniture, movie props and the old woody car were all left there just as they were in the movie.

Your mind and your imagination are powerful things and we should use them to create uplifting images that bolster our spirit rather than letting our minds give us an image of failure. Be bold. KT

End of life

People refer to death in various ways. I have heard it called by the following terms. Passing over to the other side, crossing the River, beyond the grave, at peace, at rest, a better place, over the ridge, paradise, the reward, Abraham’s bosom, passing away and on it goes.

The simple answer is that death is what happens here on earth before you go to heaven or hell. You will be going to one of the two places. There are no other options and all the sweet wording in the world doesn’t change the event. You either die in Christ as a born again believer or you don’t. The Apostle Paul wrote “to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord” I believe the transformation to Heaven or Hell is literally in the blink of an eye. When you take your last breath here on earth, you take your next breath in either Heaven or Hell. There are no second chances or do overs. There is only the one chance.

There have been some scoundrels (I can name a couple) that died a slow enough death so that in the end, they become a believer and asked God to save their soul. For every one who had the time to make a last decision, there are thousands more that didn’t have the time to change their mind. To them there were no death bed revelations, because there was no time. It was instant death and they were bound by whatever decision they had already made.

There are some things you can leave to chance and hope for the best. This is not one of them. I believe every single person regardless if they are an atheist, unbeliever or a believer, all know deep in that quite place in our hearts, that there is a God and he is real and he will accept me unconditionally if I just say ok. I have seen up close some of the smartest and most educated people that cannot understand this simple truth. That is why I love the Apostle Paul’s writings so much because he was an unbeliever’s unbeliever but when Jesus was revealed to him, he turned that moment and never looked back. His history is far worse than yours and mine, yet he found forgiveness, acceptance and grace and he leaped toward it and never let go.

If your decision is to stay a sinner and an unbeliever, I say, by God be the best sinner you can be. Don’t hold back. If you are not a believer because you have unanswered questions and have been putting this decision off, trust me when I say, you are literally flirting with forever. KT

Nevertheless

There is a passage of scripture that could be one the most important passages in the bible. It is Luke 5:5 and the story is about the Apostle Peter.

Early in Jesus’s ministry Peter had heard about Jesus and knew there was something special about him. Peter and his crew had been fishing, “tolling,” all night and they had nothing to show for it and had caught no fish. They brought the boats in that morning and went about cleaning the nets and securing the boats from the night of fishing. Jesus was walking along the shore and there were a lot of people wanting to hear and see Jesus. Jesus asks Peter if he would push the boat out just a little from the shore and let him stand up in the boat and speak to the people. Peter said sure and then went about cleaning his nets while Jesus spoke to the crowd. Side note here, Peter was listening the whole time he was cleaning the nets.

When Jesus finished speaking, he told Peter to let down his nets for a draught (lot of) fish. Keep in mind the boat was just a few feet from the shore. Peter must have thought, what a foolish thing to ask of a fisherman. Then he said the words that probably represented the most important decision Peter had ever made in his life. He said in verse 5,”Master we have toiled all night and have taken nothing, nevertheless, at thy word I will let down the nets.” He let the nets down and they filled with fish to the point that the nets began to break. At that moment Peter became a believer.

This story means so much to me because many times in our lives we have done the right thing, been accountable, been faithful, been a giver and lived the way we should and yet sometimes we have watched others succeed that didn’t do any of the right things. It is easy to look at others and ask why I can’t seem to make it.

In this passage Peter said “nevertheless” I will follow you. Sometimes in our lives we need to have a “nevertheless” moment where even though we may not be in life where we thought we would be, we still say to God, “nevertheless” I will still follow you. In life many times it is about staying with a job or a business or raising the children even though sometimes you feel like quitting. I believe God honors consistency in how we live, how we give and are we giving our best.

Next time you feel like giving up just say in your spirit “nevertheless” and keep going because it will get better and it will improve and you will look back on a life lived honestly and be glad you didn’t falter and or quit. KT

Do you need God when things are good?

Many people don’t think they need Jesus when everything is good. When the bills are paid and children are healthy and the job is going great, some people don’t really think they need a relationship. Are they correct? It is amazing to me how that attitude changes when the situation changes.

You have heard me tell this story but it is worth telling again. Imagine you are at the beach with your girlfriend and you are a little on the skinny side. Along comes a big muscular guy who steals your girlfriend. You get mad and start doing pushups and sit-ups. Ha. The problem is it is too late to start working out at that point. That is how many people think spiritually in that they only need to start praying and seeking God when something bad has happened.

I think he really savors our prayers and thanksgiving when things are good in our life and not just when we get into trouble.

I hear a bunch of people saying that they are atheist and do not believe there is a God. I will tell you that anyone who says that has never been in trouble or ever had a sick child. One thing I am certain of is that during war time there were no soldiers that when into battle saying there is no God. The opposite is probably true. They called out to God for protection and wanted him near.

I believe it is especially sweet to God when we are faithful in the good times and not just when we are down. That is why I believe tithing is so very special because believe it or not, it is always easier to give when you need God’s help and much harder to give when things are going good. Percentage giving keeps things on an even basis and the giving amount moves with the income. It is the consistency of faith or the act of faith that moves God.

I believe we need God even more when things are good because we need his wisdom and guidance even more at that time. It is when things are going good that we need to be the most vigilant and most careful about our thinking. One of the finest men I have ever known was as passionate in his prayer life in good times as well as bad. When you heard him pray you would never know if things were up or down in his life. He was always the same.

God wants to hear from us in all situations of life from the small to the large, from the important to the seemingly insignificant, when things are good as well as when thing are troublesome, in need or in lack, in health or in sickness. He already knows everything going on in your life and he will not be surprised by what you tell him. He just wants to hear your voice reaching out to him. KT

One more day

Life can change so quickly. Don’t wait to do what you know you need to do. Every single one of us knows in our heart what changes we need to make in our lives. There are no gray areas, no questions and everyone knows what to do. We just sometimes don’t want to do it.

I have attended many funerals for people far too young to have passed away. I suspect that with many of them, they woke up that morning and did not know it was their last morning. The bible says to not put off till tomorrow what you can do today. That is very sound advice for family, health, business and life in general. It doesn’t mean you have to accomplish the full thing, it just means you have to start. It is the starting where I believe God gives us a special grace and a special anointing for that moment because he knows it is the most fragile period. The starting point is the hardest part.

I believe each person who is at the one yard line of life, if they have their mental faculties, want one more day. If they were given that one more day, they would tell everyone in their life that they love them, they would do the best they could to fix a strained relationship. They would do the most important things for their family so there would be no question, they were loved.

There are some things I can change in my life and some I can’t. For instance, I am ugly and I stutter, but there is nothing I can do about those things. It is how God saw me in his eye before I was conceived in my mother’s womb. He knew a thousand years ago exactly what I would look like and be like and talk like and the precise time era I would live in. On grave stones there is a beginning date and an ending date and usually there is a dash between the dates. God knows the length of the dash and he knows exactly when we will be called home. Yes, called home. That is what heaven is, our ultimate home and he knows exactly when each of us will open the front door to that home.

Don’t put off doing what you know you need to do. In fact, do it or start it before you go to bed tonight and ask God almighty to give you the strength and will power to see the decision through. We all have fears and anxiety and all hide things behind the veil so other people can’t see it but we know what needs to be done.

Face the fear of the thing you are most afraid of and I believe you find out that it is simply a shadow. Psalms 23 says; that we shouldn’t have fear when we walk through the valley of the shadow of death. Let me say that again. The valley of the shadow of death. Have you ever seen your shadow? It is much larger that you actually are. It looks scary because it is so large. That is what God is talking about in Psalm 23. He says to not let the size of the shadow scare you into thinking it is so big. The thing you probably fear the most, when you face it head on, is probably not that big after all. KT