All posts by Keith Thompson

Time versus Timing

Time to God is not as important as Timing. There is secular quote that says, “Timing is everything,” and it is pretty close to being correct.

God’s view of our life covers a broad range of time and in many cases, years. Our view of life is yesterday, last week or last year. We view our successes and mistakes in the short range. God knows where he wants you to be five years from now but in most cases all we can think about or see is last week. I will give you a perfect example of what I am talking about

29 years ago I decided I needed to be in the fast food restaurant business and what a mistake that was. I was head strong and thought I knew best for my life but if I am perfectly honest with myself, that decision was mine and mine alone. That decision almost destroyed our financial lives, but as with all decisions, good and bad, God can pick up the pieces and get us through it.

It took me some years later to understand the pieces God was working with. One of the pieces was that the guy I bought the restaurants from also was a hotel broker. When he saw me about to lose everything in the restaurant business, I think he felt sorry for me and gave me a chance to sell hotels, which turned out to be my profession in life. I had no education or experience in selling hotels yet God saw the road I needed to be on 10 years before I did. All I could see was the existing circumstances.

I have no doubt I would have ended up exactly where I am at and I am also sure God had an easier path than to go the route of the failed restaurant business. That said, God picked up the pieces of my life and used the course I was on to get me to where I needed to be going.  I understand it perfectly clear now, but back then I was so in debt with the restaurants, all I could see was where I was, not where I was going.

The Time it took to get me in the place he wanted me to be was just Time to God but what is important was his Timing. It doesn’t matter how great the change in your life may be, if you are not ready, it won’t mean anything. God knows the proper timing for every aspect of lives. Our prayer shouldn’t be, God change this or do that, rather our prayer should be, God get us ready for your Timing. KT

Do what is right, do your best and love others

I was at the 90th birthday party over the weekend for Harmon Born. Harmon has been a mentor to me all of my adult life and I will be forever grateful for his influence into my life. When I was young man with a young family, Harmon became the example I wanted to follow. At that time in my life, I needed to change the examples I was using to direct my life. I have certainly told Harmon on many occasions what he has meant to me over my adult life but it would be impossible for him to fully understand what the time he has spent with me has meant in my life. Simply put, he is my hero

Harmon has never missed an opportunity to pour himself into another person. I have heard it said that small people talk about other people, average people talk about things and leaders talk about ideas. Harmon has always talked about ideas and thought processes that can impact your life.

At his birthday party, I was standing in the group watching this 90 year old man take the microphone and began to speak. Before he finished speaking he left the crowd with three simple life goals. Do what is right, do your best at everything you do and show love to others. It is amazingly simple right? So easy and clear to understand but so very hard to actually do.

Do what is right. We know what the right thing is to do. There is very little gray area in most decisions we make. We know what the right thing is to do but the problem is many times we choose not to do it.

Do your best. If we really tried to do our best at everything we did, it would change our life. The problem is too many times we don’t go all the way and do our best, instead we give less than our best and live with the consequences.

Love others. I don’t know about you but I know a bunch of people that are hard to love. Ha. I find it is easy to love the ones that are lovable but I think what is important is to try and show kindness to the ones that are difficult. Me/you will never fully arrive at the place where we love everyone but we can start today to do a better job at showing kindness and forgiveness to others.

We all probably learned these three life principles on the first day of school. While they don’t give us all the answers to a fulfilling life, these three goals are a good place to start. KT

Never lead from your chair

Back in 2014, I wrote this blog post titled, Never Lead from Your Chair, which was based on the Sam Walton story. As we all look at the business world today, I believe this blog post is worthy of a repeat.

Sam Walton was the founder of Walmart, and he had many quotes over his years of leadership. One that really impressed me is “never lead from your chair.”

I believe this could be one of the greatest business success secrets of all time. It has been seen in many people from Henry Ford to Ronald Reagan to Bill Marriott.

It simply means to get up and get involved in your business; meet and speak with your people, and let them know that they are important to what you are doing and to what your company is doing. If you are in sales like me, it means making sales calls with your people and leading by example. It also means doing in front of people what you expect them to do. Leading by example is one of the most powerful leadership qualities a person can have.

We have all seen situations where a business manager or group leader will just make decisions from his chair and expect everyone to carry out his orders. Obviously, there are times when a leader does send emails and make decisions from his/her office, but what I am talking about is a metaphor of leading a group while being involved as compared to just giving orders and hope they are followed.

In our world of websites, emails, texts, it is so easy to assume that an email or a text will get the job done. Sometimes it does facilitate business, but it rarely establishes business. Over the last couple of weeks, we have had several hotel deals that needed a verbal introduction rather than an email introduction. There were five of these such calls that I made over the last several weeks. I can tell you that every one of the calls were well received and appreciated by the clients far more than if I had emailed them. People get reams of emails of which many they do not respond to, but a personal call is in my opinion “business 101.”

I think if managers, directors, and employers would go talk to their folks, hear their opinions, and ideas, many of the decisions that are made would be different. Sometimes you have to walk into the forest to actually see the trees, even though you already know what they look like.

Therefore, Sam Walton’s idea of leading a company is very on point today as well as it was in his time. His company outlasted many volume discount retailers, such as GEX, Dixiemart, Kmart, Memco, American Wholesale Club, Edwards, PriceRite, etc. It was probably because he would actually go to the stores, talk to the people, and lead from that position, rather than sit in his office and make decisions. It is also noteworthy to tell you that Sam Walton drove his same old truck to the same diner to eat breakfast with his same old friends, and this was even after he was a billionaire. His philosophy was to keep it simple, keep it real, and lead by example. KT

The magic of new business

In our line of work we list and sell hotels. In your line of work you may sell some other kind of product or you may work for a company that manages, sells, manufactures, consults or any other manner of business. One point is crystal clear though. We are all salesman and saleswomen. I don’t care what your job is or what title you have, we are all in sales. Even if you never touch a product in a sales pitch, you are still selling your talent, personality, wisdom, influence and leadership. Every time you pick up the phone at work, you are selling regardless of your job classification.

In every line of sales or work there is usually one or two things you must do to continue having a job. If you did everything else accept those few things, you would eventually lose your job, title or position. Our one thing is listing new business/hotels for sale. For us there really isn’t a second thing. If you do only that one thing, you will succeed in our business. It is that simple yet seemingly so very complicated to do.

In all businesses it is so easy to lose focus and get caught up in busy work instead of the very thing you need to do. The busy work or non-essential activities are like cutting the grass and painting the shutters on a house that is falling apart on the inside. It looks good from the outside but is failing on the inside.

In your line of work there is a very few (1-3) factors or things you must stay on top of or must do to remain a productive producer in your company. I used to have this friend that managed a large grocery store and each day there were 2-3 financial factors he needed to know at all times. He carried a piece of paper with those numbers in his pocket and memorized them several times a day so he would be fluent with the facts when his regional manager called. Pretty smart right? Knowing the main factors your superiors want and finding out the answers in advance is not only smart, it is also called selling yourself.

So if it holds true that we are sales people and that we all continue to interview for a job every time we pick up the phone or answer an email, it would be smart to know what is most important and focus your attention on that. KT

 

A bend in the road

The term, a bend in the road, means that the road that was straight and predictable now has a curve/bend in it. Sometimes the road is straight and we can see where we are going and life seems to be on autopilot and then there are times when the road bends and we cannot see where it is going. It is in those times we have to trust that we are on the right road.

Everyone I know has had to face a bend in the road at some time or another. A bend can come as a health issue, a financial issue, a job change, marital change, death of a loved one, a deep loss, a change in our confidence, starting over financially, strife with another, a sale that you missed, a promotion you were passed up for etc etc. This list could go on for pages but you get the idea. A bend in the road is seen as something you were not expecting but nevertheless something that has changed in your world. The good news is a bend in the road is not always a bad thing. It is just a change from where you thought you were going.

If I had five blank pages I could tell you about some of the bends in the road I have personally experienced. At the time, the bend was unwelcomed but in many cases I look back on the various bends and realize that God was in control and that the bend/change was him leading me in a different direction. Truth be told, as I look back over my life I can see the hand of God in many of the bends on my road of life. I am sure you can also attest to bends in your life. The question becomes, when you are faced with a bend in your life, what do you do?

Recently, I had been working for two months on a surprise for a family member and I had the date and time all planned out for the surprise. That morning as I got ready for the unveiling of the surprise there was one setback after another. After two hours of trying to get things worked out for the surprise, I paused and stepped back and realized that God didn’t want it to be done on that day according to my plan. He wanted it to be on his plan. I didn’t understand it but I had the peace in my spirit that God had a better idea. The result was that we surprised the family member a few days later than expected and I realized that God’s timing was in fact perfect and far better that what I had planned.

Many times when you are faced with a bend in the road of life, you need to have some place and someone to put your trust in. That place and that person for me is God. When faced with a bend, you have to know in your heart that you are in the right vehicle, on the right road and going in the right direction.

Again, the bend in the road is not always bad. Something it is just God’s way of changing our direction. KT