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Be a finisher and not just a starter

There are idea people, and then there are people who finish things. Idea people generally go from thing to thing and complete very little over the course of their life. The people who start something and finish it–now that is something to take notice of.

I had this friend some years ago who lived in North Carolina, and they had a very nice home. He decided he would build a raised deck and covered barbecue area by hand. He was all lathered up and got the lumber, drew the plans exactly like he wanted it to look, had the vision of what it would look like, and set the day he would start construction. He stayed with it until the deck was about 75% finished; the roof was just framed out and the brick fire pit was about half-finished. He lost interest and didn’t complete the project. When they sold the house some years later, the partially finished barbecue area was still back there rotting in the weather looking like a big wart in the backyard.

As you know, I sell hotels and as you can imagine, I have seen a few. I have met many general managers and heads of maintenance. Without exception, I can walk into a maintenance man’s shop or a general manager’s office and tell you how well-maintained or well-managed the hotel is. It’s amazingly simple to look at the maintenance shop or the general manager’s office and tell you with a high degree of certainty how the hotel is running. Now, you show me a maintenance man that is organized and a general manager who is organized, and I will show you a well-maintained and well-managed hotel. I will also show you a hotel staff who enjoys where they work.

Elaine and I were riding through the country the other day and went past a home that looked like there were more possessions in the yard than in the house. It’s not a perfect science and nothing is ever always correct, but I would guess that the people that live in that house are financially overwhelmed, exhausted with life, argue a lot and probably live an unsatisfying life.

Why am I telling you this today? I find that my life gets a little easier to handle when I get my life and the areas around me in order. There is nothing as sweet as standing back looking at something you completed.

It is told that when Albert Einstein finished the paper on relativity and the details of the invention that he went to put a paper clip on the top and noticed that the paper clip was bent and not in the shape it was suppose to be. He took 45 minutes to straighten and bend the paper clip to the proper shape.

During the presidency of Abraham Lincoln, it is told that any citizen could come meet with him at the White House if they were prepared to wait in line. One such meeting took place and the person was led into Lincoln’s office. It is reported that Lincoln did not look up and did not acknowledge the person was even in the room until he had completed the task on his desk, signed the documents, rolled them up, and replaced the rubber band. Only then did he look at the person and say, “how can I help you?” Abraham Lincoln was a finisher of tasks

Do you think Nancy Reagan had to tell Ronnie to complete things? Did Laura Bush have to tell George to be a finisher, did Melinda Gates need to tell Bill not do things halfway, and was Eleanor Roosevelt in the habit telling FDR to get something finished? Again, very few things are exact, but in my humble opinion, every person that was and is a real game changer were finishers and completers of tasks and ideas. They didn’t hand it off to someone else and expect them to finish, no they were there until it was finished.

So, as I look at all the abilities of people, to me the most important is the ability to see it, stay with it and be a finisher. Ideas are great, but it’s really a beautiful thing to see a person who has ideas AND the ability to see it through. KT

Pinehurst #2

For those of you who play golf and enjoy the sport, Pinehurst, North Carolina, is the host city for the men’s US Open and also the women’s US Open. I believe that this is the first time (I could be wrong) that both the men’s and women’s US Open are played at the same course in the same year. The men’s will start on the 12th of June and the women’s is the following week. Within the Pinehurst Resort there are a lot of courses, but Pinehurst #2 is the big daddy and that is where both opens will be played.

We are selling a SpringHill Suites hotel in Pinehurst, so 3 of us went last week and played Pinehurst #2. The day we played was actually the last day for public play before the course was closed off for the US Open.

We were able to have our picture taken with the actual US Open Trophy from 1895. It has the names engraved of every golfer that won the US Open since 1895. The value of this trophy is priceless because there is only one of them. You couldn’t touch it, but it was outside on a table and you could have a picture taken with it. It is probably the only time I will ever see this trophy outside of the glass security case.

Have you ever been involved in a sport that you are just not very good at? Well, that is the way golf is for me. I love the idea, the honest and the steeped history of golf, but not so much the actual playing of golf because again, I am not very good. If you are not competitive in something, you tend to lose interest during the process. For me that happened on about hole #10 last week.

For those who don’t know about Pinehurst #2, it is probably the toughest golf course in the US because of the upside down, bowl-shaped greens as well as because the rough is all sand with weeds. The rough is almost impossible to hit a good shot out of because essentially, you are hitting off sand and hitting around or behind foot-high clumps of weeds. If the rough is not enough for you to lose your composure, the greens will push you over the limit. Every green is basically shaped like an upside-down bowl. If you land and stop the ball in the middle of the green you have chance, but if you land the ball on outside edges the ball will roll off the green every single time. There were 10 times on my round last week where I hit an approach shot that on any other golf course would be considered a good shot, but not on Pinehurst #2. The ball would roll off the green 25-40 feet by the time it stopped. Simply put, it was the most frustrating round of golf I have ever played. Why we paid so much to play and drove 6 hours to get frustrated, I will never know.

As I played, I wish I could tell you I was thinking about this blog and some way for it have meaning for life. I was not doing that. I was just trying to get through and keep my composure. Since then, however, I have given this some thought, and I have a couple of parallels to life I would like to share with you.

First – sometimes you play life exactly the way you are supposed to and your ball still rolls off the green.

Second- regardless of the way it looks, you may not be in as good of shape as you think.

Third – life, like golf, is played with integrity and is meant to be played with class and not arrogance or a feeling of entitlement. You simply play the round the best you can and try to stay out of the rough and play the ball down the fairway and play safe. There is no way to cut corners for a better score.

Fourth – there are no do-overs and the round you are playing is the only one you get. You must recover if you hit a bad shot because there is no other option other than giving up and that is not an option in life. Follow through every swing and do the best you can with every shot because that is the way life is, you only get one try at every shot.

Fifth – what you compromise to keep, you will usually lose. In life, when you compromise your integrity, honesty, or composure, it usually costs you in the end. In life, the best night’s sleep is one when you lay your head down and you know you did things the best you could and you were honest with yourself. Lies and shortcuts often cause you sleepless nights because you know what really happened in your heart and you know if you were really honest.

Sixth – when you hit a great shot don’t fool yourself to believe that you have mastered it and will always hit great shots. Life is mostly about what you do after you hit a bad shot because in those moments, you really learn who you are.

So, my final advice is not to ever go play Pinehurst #2 but if you do, play it like a lady and a gentleman and try to learn about life as you play…because you most certainly will not enjoy the round of golf. Ha. KT

The 2014 NYU conference

We just returned from the NYU conference. This is the biggest conference each year for hotels and it is basically meetings one after the other for two days. It’s like speed dating where you sit for 20 minutes with each buyer, make your sales pitch, and then you move on to the next one.

I use these conferences as the bellwether on how long the market cycle will last, and I try to gauge where we are in the cycle. I have been selling hotels for 24 years and have been through enough cycles to know the signs when you see them.

If everyone is having financial trouble and the mood is low, you can expect that the next several years should be favorable to transactions and hotel selling. This year at the NYU conference, the mood was euphoric, money was flowing, and the vibe was basically off the charts. Everyone was upbeat, happy and feeling invincible.

Each of the financial downturns I have been through all started soon after this type of a conference. So we at Hotel AG are battening down the hatches and attempting to close all the transaction we can this year. I hope all the smart folks are right, and I am wrong because that would mean that the economic outlook is solid for several more years. I would gladly be wrong if it meant several more years of a good transaction environment.

I believe business cycles are a lot like life. When you are doing well, you need to be saving money for when times are not so well; when you are healthy, you need to be appreciative of that season in your life. So often, people take a season of joy in their lives for granted and miss the opportunity because they never stopped to really savor the time. Just like in business, when things are right, you need to be humble and very aware that it will not be like this forever.

History is full of people, even wealthy people, that thought life would stay good for many years, and we all know how that ended. The greatest examples of leaders are the ones that prepare for the changes in life and move through those periods with grace and humility. KT

My daily card

Twenty-seven years ago, I started using a day planner program that involves using an annual daily planner (book size) as well as a pocket card that I carry around every day. On that pocket card, I list the objectives and the priority I need to accomplish each task.

Something I started doing 15 years ago was to put some things I say to myself each day at the top of the card. I use initials for what it means so that if I lost the card it wouldn’t have a bunch of weird sayings at the top. Ha. I am going to share them with you.

The initials are WWF, BFOJT, WUT and NBIN

WWF – Walk without Fear

BFOJT – Be Full Of Joy Today

WUT – Walk Upright Today

NBIN – Never Be Intimidated, Never

These little things may not mean anything to anyone except me, but it is a reminder each day of what I am living in and who I am representing. God did not create in us a spirit of fear and many of you never have that problem anyway. I stutter when I talk and fear and self-confidence is a very huge factor with speech. Therefore, I need to tell myself these things every day.

I think it is good to have foundations that you use in your life and words that have meaning to you. In the Bible, it says multiple times that “faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God.” Translation…I hear myself daily speak these words into being and it bolsters my faith and self-esteem by hearing these words even if I am the one saying them.

Find some things that you need to hear daily and let your inner man/woman hear the words out of your own mouth and let those words speak to your self-esteem, confidence, self-worth, self-value and your purpose in your life. Many times we just need to hear a good uplifting word, so say the words your heart needs to hear: that you are good, that you are of great value, that you are somebody, that you are loved, that you are needed, and what you are doing is important. KT

Starbucks

As many of you know, Starbucks is my coffee of choice. I am not endorsing their political views, but just simply saying that I love their coffee.

Hanging on our office wall are probably the two most important pictures we have at Hotel AG. The picture on the left was taken at the original Starbucks store in Seattle in 1971, and the picture on the right was taken at the same store in 2012. The angle of the camera lens is the same in both pictures.

The point of this blog post is that everything is complicated and messy when you start regardless of how great it may become in the future. It is always messy and unorganized in the beginning. Every business, every new idea, every church, etc., is always more complicated and confusing and messy when you start.

The 1971 picture shows a Starbucks store that is very unorganized and very sloppy with trash, empty coffee cups everywhere, unhappy customers at the counter, and a staff that is frazzled and overwhelmed. I simply love the picture.

The 2012 picture shows a Starbucks store that is the opposite of everything in the 1971 picture. It shows a competent staff and happy customers in an environment that is organized, well managed,  clean, and exactly what you would expect from a global coffee company.

The difference between the pictures is time.

The time to figure it out, find your market, have training, quality control, etc, but mostly the time to get traction in whatever you are doing.

It always always always takes longer to get it right and takes much more money that you plan for to get it to a successful point. And this is for every new venture, new job, new company, and new idea.

Proverbs 14:4 says, “where no oxen are, the crib is clean.” It means that it’s easy to keep a barn stall clean and organized when it doesn’t have any animals in it. Just like a new business. If you don’t have anything going and no customers, it is easy to keep all the files straight and desk clean.

What am I saying here? Sometimes things being a mess and unorganized is a good thing if the reason is because you are working to get an idea off the ground and would rather have customers than a clean office.

Therefore, I love the Starbucks pictures because they remind me that at Hotel AG when things get busy and messy, it is a sign that we are doing something and not just talking about it. KT