Category Archives: Career

Short Term Memory Loss

In 2020, we could all use a good dose of short-term memory loss. Past failures, lost promotions, what someone said about us, some embarrassing moment, turned down for a job, lost a sale, a bad financial investment, harsh words spoken, loss, anxiety, fear, depression, feeling misplaced in life, etc. and the list for go on for many pages but you get the idea.

Sometimes the most difficult person to forgive, is yourself. Think with me a second outside the vernacular. Does the devil want you to move on from past failures and become who you are supposed to be? The answer is no. The way he prevents this from happening is to continually remind us of our past short comings, failures and life missteps. This my friend is why we need some short-term memory loss as it pertains to our past mistakes. See, the longer you dwell on your past, the less time you can spend on your future. The more time you relive past failures, the less time you have to chart a different course. The more you act in fear, the less you act in hope. The more conservative and cautious you become, the less you can believe again. The more you let the devil control your thoughts with past failures, the less you will let God give you a new vision.

It is impossible to forget our past, but it is possible to stop letting it control our future. Happy 2020. KT

My favorite Christmas movie quote

I have been accused of loving Christmas movies and this year I guess I proved it was correct. My sweet little wife let me watch many this year and I loved them. The thing I love about them is they are happy and always end well. I know in real life things don’t always go the way we thought they would but at Christmas time, it is relaxing to escape for a couple hours and watch something that is uplifting, wholesome and full of joy.

While romping through the Christmas movies, I landed on one (don’t laugh) that had Dolly Parton in it. I have never been a fan of her music but in this movie, she made a statement that was profound. She was telling this young person who was striving to get ahead in life the following quote. “Don’t get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.”

That is a statement that carries a great deal of wisdom. Ask any person in their 60’s, 70’s and 80’s what they most wish they had done differently in life. They never tell you, I wish I had worked more and made more sales calls and spent more time in the office. No sirree, they will tell you that they wished they had spent more time with their family. At your funeral, the size of your office, your title at work, bank account and all the sales awards won’t matter anymore. What will matter is the legacy you leave for your children and grandchildren. Did you teach them well and set the example for them? That’s it.

So, I will end this blog post with Dolly’s words again. “Don’t get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.” KT

Time and chance

My Sunday school teacher (David Smith) taught a lesson a few weeks ago that really grabbed my attention. The scripture was written by King Solomon (King David’s son) and he was the wisest and richest man to ever live. Literally. He authored three books of the bible, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes and The Song of Solomon. These three books follow the book of Psalms which was written by his father, King David.

Ecclesiastes is shockingly applicable to today. It is like the book was written last week even though it was written 935 years before Christ. I want to focus on the false idea that we (as humans) can control our life by our own education, wisdom, strength, skill or wealth. Look at the following passage of scripture.

Ecclesiastes 9:11 (NLT) “I have observed something else under the sun. The fastest runner doesn’t always win the race, and the strongest warrior doesn’t always win the battle. The wise sometimes go hungry, and the skillful are not necessarily wealthy. And those who are educated don’t always lead successful lives. It is all decided by chance, by being in the right place at the right time,”

If you are like me, I haven’t yet been able to wrap my mind around all the meaning of that verse. It is so deep. What part I do understand, I understand very deeply. It says to me that we can do all the right things and still fail because it is up to God to put us in the right place at the right time. This is clearly the story of my life and maybe yours too. Only God knows where we are supposed to be and only God can ordain the circumstances to line up in our lives.

The message is simple. Seek God’s will and his favor and trust that he has us in his hand and he will put us in the right place at the right time. We have no control. When we accept that, it allows us to live more freely and have more love, joy and peace. It’s funny, that the words love, joy and peace are used mostly at Christmas time. Merry Christmas. KT

S&H Green Stamps

Before Amazon, eBay, Google and the internet, there was S&H Green Stamps. The company started in 1896 but really came into its own in the 50’s and 60’s. Grocery stores, gas stations etc. would buy the stamps (green with a sticky back) from S&H and then give them out to customers based on the amount they spent. The customers would paste them into S&H books and could redeem them for merchandise at the S&H Green Stamp stores or through the Green Stamp catalog.

One book of stamps was 24 pages of 50 stamps and each stamp represented 10 cents spent. Therefore, each book represented roughly $120.00 spent. We are talking about the 50’s and 60’s when gas was 25 cents a gallon, new cars were $2,500 and the average weekly grocery bill was $30 dollars. Therefore, to get one book of stamps it was like a month worth of purchases. By way of examples, a men’s Bulova watch was 10 books, a silverware set was 27 books, a wall clock was 9 books, an ice cream maker was 4 books and a mixing bowel set was 1 book. Housewives would save stamps for year to redeem them for something they could have bought for $15-$20 dollars.

At their peak, S&H had 800 Green Stamp stores where people would bring the books they saved and trade them for merchandise. They also printed more than 30 million catalogs where people could redeem their books for merchandise through the mail.

People would pay more for their groceries just to get the green stamps and like many loyalty programs today, people would purchase from the same gas station or grocery store because they saw value in these stamps. They could have probably bought the items for a fraction of what they spent at these stores just to get the green stamps.

It was its own industry and the green stamp owners (Sperry and Hutchinson) were making a killing on the stamp program. It all came crashing down in the mid 70’s when several trade associations claimed that the program was unfair to the consumers by making them pay more for goods and services than the stamps were worth. Also, Walmart was expanding like crazy and other discount retailers arrived which exposed how much more consumers were paying at certain stores just to get the stamps. Like many businesses, it had a great run and great following but did not adapt to the changing market place.

There are literally thousands of companies that lost their market edge because they either refused to change or couldn’t see the reason for a change. Two perfect examples of this would be Sears and Blackberry. They both literally owned their respective market but ultimately lost their customer base because they didn’t adapt to change. Whatever business you are in (literally) is going to change and the future is to those who can see it and change with it. KT

Road Signs

When you are driving, there are road signs that help keep you safe and out of trouble and warn you of potential danger ahead. In life I believe we also have road signs along the way. Some people pay attention to the signs. but many people just ignore them.

Everyone reading this blog understands what I am trying to say. We all know there are warning signs in life and many of us at times have ignored them because we thought we knew what was best. We all are smart enough to see danger and adjust. The real question is if you want to acknowledge it or not.

Some common examples of road signs are – stop, do not enter, speed limit, yield, do not pass, detour, buckle up, steep decline ahead, proceed with caution, speed bump, no left turn, slow-dangerous intersection, dead end, wrong way,

When you see these road signs, think with your heart for a moment. We have many of these instructional signs in life. Right? Take the signs, stop or wrong way for example. I don’t know about your life and the decisions you have made, but I remember buying those restaurants 31 years ago and God giving me signs that I needed to stop. I just didn’t want to listen. The result was eight years of financial struggle. Had I just listened to the signs, it would have saved me much heartache.

Therefore, there are road signs in life that we need to pay attention to. It is God giving you the driving instructions. When you sense danger ahead, don’t just ignore it and plow into it. The older you get (I have found out) the more you see road signs that warn of possible danger. Many of these I would have never thought of when I was younger. That is why the bible says in the book of Job 12:12 “is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long-life bring understanding?” KT